The outpouring of emotion and support for each other recently in various public events can cause us normal (and by normal I mean not Hollywood stars) folks to have thoughts of inspiration as well a jealousy. Inspiration because I would like to strive to have in my marriage more of what they have, and jealousy because I wish I had it already and didn't have to work at it. Sandra said recently that her and Jesse's marriage is strong because she knows he has her back.
So, what is it that they have? PASSION! They have passion. They've had their share of personal problems to deal with and they have been able to do just that, deal with them. The reason for that is having passion and connection in a marriage will give you the ability to squash any challenges that might come up.
For instance, if a marriage or relationship is having problems and there is no feeling of passion or connection even the smallest of problems are going to feel huge. What if the couple in that same situation have to deal a large problem? Many times, that's when the relationship fails.
You will find that the more connected you are to your partner, the more power you will have to heal a broken relationship. Maybe your relationship isn't broken, maybe it's just a little bent or dinged up, focus on increasing the passion and it will get stronger everyday. It's at that point the two of you won't sweat the obstacles that life deals out because you will know you can trust each other, and your relationship, so you can power through.
Here's my challenge for you: Take some time and think of two ways to put some PASSION back in your marriage or relationship, and take action and do them. Maybe it will be the way you can insure that you've got each others back the next time a problem pops up.
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